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Why One “B” in High School Isn’t the End of the College Admissions

For some students, especially those who have only ever earned A’s, the first “B” can seem like a crisis. Families often wonder if this single grade will damage college admissions chances. The truth: it won’t. Admissions officers use a holistic evaluation process. That means they look at much more than a GPA snapshot: In fact,…

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Transforming “The Homework” Conversation

Most parents simply seek to connect with their children about their daily lives, or understand if their teen needs support, or some combination of both. However, some teens, seeking to assert independence, may rebuff their parents’ conversation starters, resent parents’ checking online grading portals, or some combination of both. As both teen and parent are…

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Helping Teens Turn Setbacks Into Self-Discovery

During the freshman and sophomore years, students often shift, sometimes, quitting multi-year extracurricular activities. For parents, such moments can seem like red flags, worried about the views of admissions officers of their teenager who’s simply maturing. But with a shift in perspective, such life changes can become opportunities for choice and self-discovery. When a teens…

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College Lists Are Living Documents—Let Them Evolve

A student’s college list isn’t carved in stone. It’s more like a proposal or hypothesis, which will be confirmed as seniors draft their autobiographical college essays. Early in the process, many students pick colleges based on name recognition, geography, or what their friends are choosing. But as each student reflects more about their goals, values,…

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Get Bored. It’s Good for College Admissions.

If you’re a parent watching your teenager scroll, nap, or wander aimlessly this summer, it’s easy to worry. Is all this “downtime” a missed opportunity? Will it put them behind in college admissions? Here’s a counterintuitive truth: boredom, when approached mindfully, can actually be a productive part of your teen’s maturing—and even strengthen their college…

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From Sticker Shock to Strategy: What IS the Value of a College Degree?

When parents first read the price tag of college, many are typically anxious. But beyond the sticker shock is a deeper consideration: What is being paid for? Although seemingly a trick question, consider the invitation to reflect, individually, between parents, or as a family to define value for a student’s future. Families make a significant…

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Quote: Ferris Bueller

Advice for choosing summer programs

“Summer” and “break”, two words that parents and students can disagree about the meaning. Parents worry their teens will sleep through the day, binge video games or streaming services, and procrastinate on completing summer homework. Students, eager for a break, yet also concerned about their “competitiveness” for college admissions compromise—participating in camps or other immersions…

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Stretch Your Mind

Why taking tests can be more complicated then just answering the questions… Why doing homework takes longer than many parents anticipate… Why writing autobiographical college essays is a complex process… For more information about how to both plan for and navigate the complex college admissions process in order to minimize the risk of educational malinvestment,…

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More about Early Admissions

In December, students who applied early admissions—whether Early Action or Early Decision—will receive one of three responses: Admitted, Denied, or Deferred to the Regular Decision pool. Yet, for teenagers, the responses often translate emotionally as: Validated (or Vindicated), Rejected, and In-Between (not quite a rejection, but not an acceptance either). For both students and parents,…

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Do I need a tutor?

At the halfway mark in the semester or changeover in quarter, students are receiving their first progress reports. For some, grades may fall below expectations, sparking concerns about academic performance. Before hiring tutors to remediate a perceived lack of understanding, I’d recommend reflecting and analyzing the course to more effectively pinpoint the issue and determine…

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