College Admissions: A Path to Humanness

Since preschool, students have progressed through school and life as part of groups, amongst same-aged peers, taking similar classes, choosing from overlapping activities. However, in planning for college, each student is now confronting something fundamentally different: choosing a path based on who they are becoming. And yet, “group think” doesn’t simply disappear. Many students continue…

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Tips for SAT Test Preparation: Continuing the Conversation with Swoon Learning

Recently, Carla Bayot of Swoon Learning shared more insights for families of high school Sophomores and Juniors as they’re determining how to best prepare for the SAT. The following is additional insights, edited for clarity, which we ran out of time to discuss during our March 20th Fifteen on Fridays, Facebook Livestream. Q: Do you…

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Some Perspective for Sophomore Families

Every spring, many sophomore families seek more strategic college admissions advising. With high school at the halfway point, suddenly each choice seems to have greater consequence: A grade slips, managing more advanced coursework is challenging, long-term extracurricular commitments are sometimes questioned. Seemingly overnight, the conversation at the dinner table becomes a strategic planning session: Parents…

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The AP Arms Race: Why More Isn’t Always Better

Many high school students believe the persistent myth that taking more Advanced Placement (AP) classes means a stronger college application. However, while AP courses represent “academic rigor”, simply collecting AP’s without reflection, students may not demonstrate what admissions officers actually value: curiosity and depth. The Problem with “Collecting” Credits Many students add AP’s as markers…

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Preparing for Employment in the Age of AI

Many experts predict that AI will soon (if not already is) automate many entry-level white-collar jobs, traditionally the realm of new college grads. Thus, for current high school students, I recommend shifting strategy for career development from mastering tasks (or competencies) to mastering judgment. Emerging college grads future value lies in an ability to critique,…

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Why One “B” in High School Isn’t the End of the College Admissions

For some students, especially those who have only ever earned A’s, the first “B” can seem like a crisis. Families often wonder if this single grade will damage college admissions chances. The truth: it won’t. Admissions officers use a holistic evaluation process. That means they look at much more than a GPA snapshot: In fact,…

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Transforming “The Homework” Conversation

Most parents simply seek to connect with their children about their daily lives, or understand if their teen needs support, or some combination of both. However, some teens, seeking to assert independence, may rebuff their parents’ conversation starters, resent parents’ checking online grading portals, or some combination of both. As both teen and parent are…

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Helping Teens Turn Setbacks Into Self-Discovery

During the freshman and sophomore years, students often shift, sometimes, quitting multi-year extracurricular activities. For parents, such moments can seem like red flags, worried about the views of admissions officers of their teenager who’s simply maturing. But with a shift in perspective, such life changes can become opportunities for choice and self-discovery. When a teens…

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College Lists Are Living Documents—Let Them Evolve

A student’s college list isn’t carved in stone. It’s more like a proposal or hypothesis, which will be confirmed as seniors draft their autobiographical college essays. Early in the process, many students pick colleges based on name recognition, geography, or what their friends are choosing. But as each student reflects more about their goals, values,…

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Get Bored. It’s Good for College Admissions.

If you’re a parent watching your teenager scroll, nap, or wander aimlessly this summer, it’s easy to worry. Is all this “downtime” a missed opportunity? Will it put them behind in college admissions? Here’s a counterintuitive truth: boredom, when approached mindfully, can actually be a productive part of your teen’s maturing—and even strengthen their college…

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From Sticker Shock to Strategy: What IS the Value of a College Degree?

When parents first read the price tag of college, many are typically anxious. But beyond the sticker shock is a deeper consideration: What is being paid for? Although seemingly a trick question, consider the invitation to reflect, individually, between parents, or as a family to define value for a student’s future. Families make a significant…

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“The Early [Admissions] Bird Catches the Worm, But Preparation is Key to the Hunt”

In recent years, more students seek any advantage in the competitive college admissions process, thus more are applying in early admissions programs like Early Decision (ED) and Early Action (EA). ED, a binding admissions agreement, requires students to commit to that college, if accepted, rescinding all other applications. EA, however, is non-binding, so students apply…

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